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Want to Make a Gun? It’s a Piece of Cake

21 Thursday Aug 2014

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Originally published December 12, 2012:

Drawing by Julie Seyler.

BY JULIE SEYLER

On October 7, 2012, The New York Times ran an article discussing how 3-D printer technology is allowing us to make guns at home.  This flipped me out, because really, regardless of where one stands on the Second Amendment (the right of the people to keep and bear arms), and gun ownership laws, it does seem somewhat crazy that we are moving into an era where guns, like cakes, can be whipped up at home with a little push of the button. Talk about the Wild Wild West!

So I brought the article up with a couple of my colleagues at work – neither of whom were particularly bothered.  One guy said, “If a person is intent on killing, it is very difficult to stop them.  They will find a means to do so with whatever technology is available at the time.” And another guy said that you still need to understand how to assemble the gun, so we need not worry about our ten year olds readily printing a gun for a fun game of cops and robbers.

Well, great!

But what does it say about where we are going as a society?  The simple fact that homemade guns are coming to your local neighborhood – it just blew my mind.  I wrote the above, did a fast drawing that reflected how I saw the situation, and figured one day we’d post my thoughts on the blog.  But last Friday I was talking to a different colleague, and he said, “Do you know what one of the most watched YouTube videos is?” I wouldn’t know since I forget YouTube exists. He said there is a video online that directs you how to make a paper gun – a usable, workable device to kill someone, and it is one of the most popular, watchable, and shareable videos within the small domain of YouTube entertainment.

He shook his head in utter disgust and resignation, and then asked me if I had heard of the University of Colorado dormitory that is specially designated for college students. You know – 18-21 year olds. That own guns. (Hate to be there on a night of too much drinking.)

Wherever you look, the liberalization of gun laws, coupled with the constant progression of technology, is not making us safer. It is just making our society scarier. I grew up knowing a gun was a company-manufactured device sold through regulated retail outlets. There were laws that governed accessibility. I may not have been any “safer” than I am today, but it sure felt that way.

So how does this relate to being on the right side of 50?  Only that I have more years behind me to feel sad about the years ahead.

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Remembering Mesopotamia

07 Thursday Aug 2014

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The Tigris and Euphrates Rivers.

The Tigris and Euphrates Rivers.

By JULIE SEYLER

There are many things to be said about Iraq, and the political pundits are weighing in non-stop on MSNBC, CNBC, CNN, FOX, PBS from the left to the right. (This is in-between keeping us abreast of what’s going on in Honduras, Syria, Israel, Gaza, Ukraine and Afghanistan). I am speechless over the terror gripping virtually every continent, but with Iraq, I cannot help but remember sixth grade history when we learned that it sits amid the Tigris and Euphrates Rivers, otherwise known as “The Cradle of Civilization”.

The heritage of Iraq is one of greatness. It descends from the Persian Empire, a civilization once populated by the Sumerians, Assyrians, Babylonians and Akkadians and their sophisticated comprehension of the world should be celebrated, not forgotten. The Sumerians recorded the first written word, (circa 2900 B.C.), figured out that a circle was 360 degrees, and grasped that the planets circled the sun and not the other way around:

Constellations that we still use today, such as Leo, Taurus, Scorpius, Auriga, Gemini, Capricorn, and Sagittarius, were invented by the Sumerians and Babylonians between 2000-3000 B.C. These constellations had mythical origins, the stories of which are common throughout the western world.

From excavations and archaeological digs we know that these earliest urbanites brewed beer, wrote poetry and were savvy commercial traders. We also know that they were craftsmen. Within the ancient tombs and buried cities, archaeologists have discovered golden filigreed crowns, necklaces of delicately chiseled leaves, and beautifully sculpted silver spouted vessels which were used either for libations or cult objects.

Jewelry found at the Royal Tomb of Ur. 2600-2200 B.C. Metropolitan Museum of Art.

Jewelry found at the Royal Tomb of Ur. 2600-2200 B.C. Metropolitan Museum of Art.

Kneeling bull holding spouted vessel. 3100-2900 B.C. Metropolitan Museum of Art.

Kneeling bull holding spouted vessel. 3100-2900 B.C. Metropolitan Museum of Art.

To remember all this and to balance it against the knowledge that the Islamic State in Iraq and Syria, “ISIS”, now known simply as the Islamic State, has not only eclipsed Al Qaeda as the world’s most powerful and active jihadist group, but seeks to monomanically annihilate history is beyond heartbreaking:

In areas that fall under their control, the jihadists work carefully to entrench their rule. They have attracted the most attention with their draconian enforcement of a fundamentalist interpretation of Islamic Shariah law, including the execution of Christians and Muslims deemed kufar, or infidels.

The goal of ISIS is to destroy. It boggles the mind, but perhaps it is not so novel or exceptional, given that it was war and violence that ultimately brought down the Persian Empire.

And yet there is wisdom being spoken and hopefully it will prevail. Ali al-Nashmi, a professor of history at Mustansiriya University in Baghdad, was quoted in The New York Times on July 27, 2014:

The world lost Iraq, but we must fight, you and me and all the friends, to do something, something mysterious and very far off. We must teach history in the primary school and show our kids Iraq’s great civilization.

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I Hate Growing Old

31 Thursday Jul 2014

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BY JULIE SEYLER

There are some days, not all days, but some of them where the revelation that I am growing old, bit by bit and inch by inch hits like a ton of bricks. It may be because despite how perfectly I have applied my mascara, my eyes still look withered or no matter how much time I spend grooming my hair its 58-year old texture just refuses to behave and looks ghastly or it might be because I had a mighty fine work-out only to discover when I get in the shower there is a dull ache in my arm. Instead of knowing it will go away, the thought creeps in, “Is this the start of something big? Is my cartillage leaking out?”

Nothing is the way it used to be and the idea that this spiral of slow decline is the new norm is just one big icky thing that does not make me happy. That’s when I call Lois, the eternal optimist whose favorite slogan is “It’s going to get better!”, but she is a peer and she too is in the process of figuring out this new story line. So we commiserate and crack up at the absurdity of how the body betrays its host and figure this means its time to plan a dance party.

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Sleeping and Profiting

16 Wednesday Jul 2014

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cake 005BY JULIE SEYLER
There is weirdness in the world today. I have a list of things I have seen, heard, read or experienced that makes me wonder has the civilized universe always been this silly or is it more silly because of the Internet, You Tube, the absence of boundaries, a hankering for 15 minutes of fame, and a belief that any infraction to personal space means a million dollar reward.

It seems a devoted New York Yankees fan fell asleep while the Yankees were playing the Boston Red Sox.

ESPN picked up on the fan’s snooze.
ESPN filmed his nap and commented on the propriety of sleeping through a baseball game.
The video was uploaded to You Tube and a Major League Baseball website.
The sleeping fan was made fun of.
The sleeping fan was not happy about the publicity.
The sleeping fan has demanded 10 million dollars, yes 10 million, to be compensated for this public defamation and the mental anguish he suffered.

It’s difficult for me to understand why ESPN and its mass following gained so much pleasure of posting images of someone sleeping at a sports event. Maybe the guy was tired, but it is incomprehensible how this guy believes that he deserves money for sleeping. Perhaps the attorney representing him is the one that deserves some Internet generated attention.

Anyway, for the moment this is old news as George Clooney and the Daily Mail fiasco become the trending topic.

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How Finishing a Book Became an Unattainable Goal

09 Wednesday Jul 2014

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BY JULIE SEYLER

When I was a young girl, say between 8 and 18, I was a reader. I never didn’t have a book in my hand. I remember sleeping over my best friend’s house. She’d want to play and I’d want to read and I would plead with her “Just let me finish this chapter.” (In retrospect I think I wasn’t that much fun as a friend, except we did laugh alot).

A road trip meant curling up in the back seat of the car with a book. Summer was a string of endless days of devouring books. I opened Black Beauty on Saturday morning and finished it on Sunday afternoon. I gobbled up The Bobbsey Twins and Nancy Drew, and moved on to Valley of the Dolls, Jane Eyre and Crime and Punishment. I went on an F. Scott Fitzgerald kick and threw him over for Hemingway. Books were escape because back then the Internet was a glimmer in the eyes of the super-techies, but nowhere near ready for its close-up by the masses.

Then college happened, then law school, then work, then the computer did become a mainstay of life, and with each passing year the number of books I finished would dwindle. I don’t mean to imply that I don’t read. I do. I am always in the middle of reading a book and am surrounded by books. One of my favorite things to do is to wander into bookstores and peruse the shelves for new discoveries. They end up stacked in my bookshelves and layered on top of one another on my nightstand, patiently waiting to be cracked open.

These days I am more realistic about the prospect of actually finishing a book, I mean within a reasonable time period. So, instead of buying books, I download samples, thousands of them, onto  my iBooks or Kindle.  samples It’s comforting to know they are there at the ready for a rainy day, even though I feel guilty because it makes me one of the countless contributors to the demise of the old-fashioned bookstore.

Still every night I curl up in bed with a book. But, before I can settle down to read, I must check email one more time, look at the latest FB posts, review the blog stats for the day, and tap on the Scrabble app to see if my online foe has made another 66 point Bingo word. Then I snuggle into read. Two pages later my eyes are drooping and the lights are out. So much for reading a book.

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We are 238 … Let’s Contemplate … and Celebrate!

04 Friday Jul 2014

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BY JULIE SEYLER

Here’s to the Birthday of the USA. On Thursday July 4, 1776, the final draft of the document declaring the colonies’ independence from Great Britain was approved by the Continental Congress. Technically one could look at these founding fathers as a motley group of rebels, but they had a vision and it was beautifully laid out in the Declaration of Independence. Thomas Jefferson was only 33 years old when he wrote these words. (I am amused that I write “only 33” when I once thought 33 was “old”).

We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.–

However yesterday’s New York Times turned the whole story upside down. There is a great debate about the period that appears after the phrase “life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.” Some cognoscenti say that that period may be a HUGE mistake and to understand the real meaning of this phrase, it must be read in immediate conjunction with its follow-up sentence:

We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness — That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed, —

Danielle Allen, a professor at the Institute for Advanced Study in Princeton, N.J. and a scholar of the Declaration of Independence, maintains that that dot of ink may not have been present on the original Declaration and if it was not, there is a shape shift in the message:

The logic of the sentence moves from the value of individual rights to the importance of government as a tool for protecting those rights,” Ms. Allen said. “You lose that connection when the period gets added.

How fascinating. With the period the individual is celebrated, without, these inalienable rights fall under government jurisdiction. Personally, I prefer the period.

So whether you’re a with-y or with-outy, enjoy this weekend where we celebrate the day we declared independence from the motherland. We are 238 years old. Let’s raise our first toast in honor of the groundbreakers of 1776 who struggled to write a paper setting forth their ideals and the second toast to us because it is true that while mistakes have been made, (and depending on one’s political stances, are being made today), the framework initiated by the drafting of the Declaration of Independence has steered us right these many years.

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Summer Ode to Joy Fulfillment

26 Thursday Jun 2014

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I love lying on the sand sans towel.

I love lying on the sand sans towel.

BY JULIE SEYLER

It’s official. Summer, for us on the east coast, has arrived. It was a long haul, with a lot of false starts, but with the solstice on Saturday June 21 it appears it has decided to stay. This is when beach nuts rejoice. It means lugging umbrellas, chairs and wheelie carts filled with cherries, chips and beer down to the ocean, scrabble games and frisbee games along with the time to catch up on all those books that escaped over the winter.

But most important it’s about diving into the ocean and rolling in the sand and making sure sunscreen is applied so thoroughly that not an inch of UVA rays reach the dermis. white faceYep, I am thrilled to be donning my mask every sunny Saturday and Sunday until September, (and I do know that sunscreen should be applied all year long but no need for the thick layer).

To return to the beach club where I have gone every year for the past 20 years and see everyone in their place is like old home week. It’s comforting that we reappear on cue with opening day, even while we are still waiting for the restaurant that was destroyed by Hurricane Sandy to be rebuilt. The pool is there beckoning for lap swimming and the old snack bar guy is back making the best tuna fish sandwiches ever and you can still nab a glass of wine at the highly modified tiki bar.

A day at the beach always delivers complete joy fulfillment, but the fact is, the options for joy fulfillment in summer are endless.

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The Point System for Healthy Living

12 Thursday Jun 2014

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the point systemBY JULIE SEYLER

I begged my friend to write this blog since he is the architect behind this guide to healthy living known as The Point System, but he refused. Instead I am the messenger and part of the message I was commanded to deliver was to stress the simplicity, flexibility and originality of his plan. So here it is.

The goal is the usual: staying on track for a healthy lifestyle via daily exercise and eating right. Because he tends to be slothlike and indulge in P.M. potato chips and A.M. bagels, he came up with this idea that he would give himself a point every time he did something “beneficial” for his body with the initial goal being to rack up 3 points a day. So, he gives himself one point if he:

  • Rides his bike to or from work; or
  • Goes to the gym (actually he has decided this is worth 2 points); or
  • Foregoes a bagel for breakfast; or
  • Eats very few white carbs; or
  • Does not eat between meals.

He said at the beginning it was difficult to get 3 points in a day, but now he needs to increase his daily challenge to 5 points a day and plans to eventually up the quota to 100 points a day. He has also added another point-based activity:

  • Getting 8 hours of sleep a night.

As anyone can see, The Point System is amazing. Not only is it as elastic as a rubber band, but you get to custom design it to fit your needs.

My only comment is that he should get a bonus point for reading the blog.

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Kara Walker’s Sugar Babies in Brooklyn

03 Tuesday Jun 2014

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Metropolitan Ave. and River Place. Brooklyn, N.Y.

Metropolitan Ave. and River Place. Brooklyn, N.Y.

BY JULIE SEYLER

A couple of weeks ago I took the L train to Bedford Avenue, the first stop in Williamsburg, Brooklyn. I became enchanted. It reminded me of a time past, before things became so homogeneous in Manhattan. It has the vibe of the East Village, 30  years ago, when I was someone who finished the night at 5:00 AM with scrambled eggs at Kiev. However I am definitely late to the Williamsburg game and whatever vibe I sensed is no doubt on its way out as Brooklyn morphs to the dance of money.

In any event, I had a mission. I was in search of the Domino Sugar Factory, once the processing source for DOMINO brand sugar, and now, an unused warehouse with one last purpose to fulfill before it undergoes semi-demolition. It is currently home to the artist Kara Walker’s show:
The Marvelous Sugar Baby

En route, I discovered the Metropolitan Pool, a lap lane pool built as a Public Bath in 1922 that is still in use today, and got a close up gander of the Williamsburg Bridge, which opened in 1903 with the distinction of being the longest suspension bridge in the world.

Williamsburg Bridge

After 20 minutes of meandering, I found my way to the sugar factory. This 19th century tome to the production of sugar, immense and obsolescent, is a work of art in itself. From its chipped and peeling paint to its rusted pipes there is texture, color and form to take in, and while a part of it is doomed to redevelopment as condominiums with riverside views of Manhattan, the exterior of the central refinery is landmark protected.

This is not the landmarked part. I just loved the way the blue paint curled about.

This is not the landmarked part. I just loved the way the blue paint curled about.

As soon as you walk inside, you smell sugar, even though it has been 10 years since the building stopped operating as a refinery. Your eyes adjust to the dimness of the natural light streaming in through the windows of this 90,000 square foot space and you take in sculptures, about three to four feet high, made of resin, with a shiny translucent reddish cast. Look closely and you see the cherubic, angelic faces of children. What registers is dissonance because the sugary benign-ness of their expressions underscores the horror that once it was a fait accompli that children were put to work, all day, picking sugar cane under a blazing sun.P1240394

When you turn to the left, you see that the sugar baby children are overseen by a gigantess, a Mama Sphinx, made entirely of sugar, lying with her haunch in the air.Sugarbaby 1

The immediate association is ancient Egypt, not only because the size and pose of the work evokes the Great Sphinx at Giza, but because her mien is as inscrutable as a Sphinx. However, she cannot be confined to the world that existed 4000 years ago when Egypt’s grandest monuments were erected on the backs of slaves. She is also an icon of pre-Civil War America, when a great deal of commerce and trade and growth in the American economy was accomplished because it was legal to own another man, woman or child. What I see in this sculpture is that the Mama Sphinx may have been a slave by circumstance, but she was never a servant. She is regal and rules with serenity and fearlessness.

Kara Walker has captured history and beauty, sweetness and bitterness, in a way that I have never seen before. It is an amazing show because it works on so many levels. There is the sheer technical artistry and then there is the simplicity of the lines and the fullness of color created by an absence of “color”, the symmetry and the way the space is filled. Even the title, “A Subtlety or the Marvelous Sugar Baby, an Homage to the unpaid and overworked Artisans who have refined our Sweet tastes from the cane fields to the Kitchens of the New World on the Occasion of the demolition of the Domino Sugar Refining Plant“, is packed with layering.

The show made me think and reflect and ponder, and even now I keep finding new and different connections. A work of art so powerful that it requires nothing from the viewer but to be astonished, moved, and educated is fabulous.

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We’re Back …

19 Monday May 2014

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Sunday morning.

BY LOIS DESOCIO

… expect snafus!

The “fresh look” we promised upon return after our week-long hiatus may not be evident at first glance.

That’s because the change is behind the scenes. Julie is learning the technical and administrative end of the blog, and starting today (on the 18-month anniversary of The Write Side of 50), she’ll be running the back end now, while I extend my hiatus to pursue other ventures.

And like anything new, there’s a learning curve. (And lots of laughs.)

So if you get an e-mail from us that makes no sense – like yesterday’s inadvertent Happy Memorial Day, a week early – or if a blog is posted, and then it disappears (or if the whole blog disappears), laugh with us! And stay tuned.

You may notice a dangling participle, an errant ellipsis, or (no!) a misplaced em-dash. There may be a blank space where the headline should be. But no doubt, with each accidental click (Uh-Oh – I hit publish!) or slip of a finger, as with anything that is in transition, the blog that was built over the last year and a half may very well, through brilliant mistakes, deconstruct and manifest into something better.

And know that I’m still here for my friend, Jule – just a martini, a text, a phone call, or an accidental click away.

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